Break Down the Chores

The sense of accomplishment will go a long way in providing your kids the needed motivation to do their chores. One of the best ways to make them feel accomplished is to break down the chores. For example, don’t make them clean their room all at once. Instead, give one specific task after another while recognizing their success after each one.

Make Them Fun

Chores can be fun if you make some effort to set them up that way. Make chores a competition or set them up as a challenge with a clock countdown. You can also set some music backgrounds and turn them into a scavenger hunt.

Let Them Have Their Pick

Give your kids a choice between different chores. This way, they will have a choice and pick one that they feel can do the best or quickest. Mix up the options each time to ensure they don’t just keep doing the same thing all over again.

Use a Reward System

Finally, using a reward system can be the best motivation for your kids to complete their chores. You can make a chart or keep a list on the fridge so they know how close they are to achieving their goal. If you want this method to be successful, make sure the reward is something they will be genuinely excited about, like a new video game. 

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Practice Sharing Around Them

Children learn best from practical examples. This means you should practice sharing around them while explaining what you’re doing. This can be anything from splitting a piece of chocolate between two of you or sharing your things with other members of the family.

Use a Turn-Taking Strategy

The turn-taking strategy is highly efficient when it comes to teaching children how to share. This way, they will realize that just because they gave up something, it doesn’t mean they have lost it forever. You can use the turn-taking strategy with toys, games, and other activities.

Encourage Sharing

You should never force your kids to share their things. However, encouraging them to do so in a gentle way is quite beneficial. You can create situations that offer opportunities for sharing and explain to them why this kind of behavior is good. Also, you can offer rewards that will entice them to share more.

Acknowledge Sharing

When you notice that your child is practicing sharing, it is important to acknowledge it and praise them for doing that. This will provide positive reinforcement and encourage them to repeat the same acts.

The post Best Ways to Teach Your Children How to Share appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Instagram user Deb, who often shares tips and tricks for moms on social media, definitely belongs to the former camp. She recently shared a cool hack that helps her toddler fold their laundry while turning the activity into a fun game.

In a viral video that received 85 million views, Deb demonstrated a DIY device for folding laundry. She taped four pieces of cardboard together and marked them with distinctly-colored numbers to make a folding device.

The clip sees her toddler placing a shirt on the device, activating the flaps according to their numbers and ending up with a neatly folded shirt.

“MOM HACK: to get your toddler to fold their laundry … Get your little one involved to make it fun,” Deb wrote in the caption of the video.

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by George & Deb & Nelio & Mila (@the_goddard_fam)

Deb’s “mom hack” drew different reactions from social media users. While some were critical of including a kid in household chores so early, many others were full of praise.

“This is the age when kids want to help and be involved. if you wait and teach them that they aren’t involved in household life it will be much harder to teach them the responsibility when they’re older,” one Instagram user wrote.

“Gross motor, counting, and life skills all in one go. You go momma!” another added.

The post Mom Shares a Cool Hack That Helps Toddlers Fold Their Laundry appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Organize One-on-One Time

Organize some quality one-on-one with each child. It can be some little projects you do together, helping them with homework, or playing their favorite game. Even if you can do 15 minutes per child each day, it will mean a lot to them.

Ask Questions

You need to show your care towards each child. One of the ways to achieve this is by asking questions. Show interest in how each child spent their day, what are they currently working on, and what’s happening in their life outside the home.

Show Affection

Don’t hesitate to show affection to each child. It can be hugs, kisses, or another way that will make them feel loved.

Avoid Playing Favorites

Finally, you must avoid playing favorites at all costs. Set the same rules for each child and show everyone the same amount of understanding. This is the only way to avoid sibling rivalry while making each child feel special in their own way.

The post 4 Secrets to Making Each Child in the Family Feel Special appeared first on parentztalk.com.

As a pediatrician, TikTok user @niky.mamamd saw plenty of cases in which a seemingly small oversight led to tragic consequences. That is why she decided to share some tragedy-preventing safety tips she practices in her own home with her followers.

In a viral video recently posted on social media, @niky.mamamd showed things she does “automatically” in order to create a safe environment for her kids. This includes keeping pot/pan handles to the side and keeping hot beverages and soups on the back side of the counter to prevent children from reaching for them and knocking them over.

Also, she advises always cutting the grapes and similarly shaped food before leaving them on the table as they represent a choking hazard.

Other TikTok users praised @niky.mamamd for sharing her tips while also leaving some of their own in the comments section.

“I like putting boiling water in the back burner and as kitchen safety i always announce myself like behind you, bringing hot water to the sink, dishwasher open etc,” one user wrote.

“And never leave a bath with a bit of water,” another added.

After the success of her first video, @niky.mamamd later uploaded a follow-up in which she shared more safety tips that she practices including never leaving anything with strings or chords around, putting away objects with button batteries, and avoiding hanging any types of clothes on the chair.

The post Pediatrician Shares Tragedy-Preventing Safety Tips She Practices in Her Own Home appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Most experts agree that kids should be encouraged to be more independent in the preschool period, between the ages of four and six. By this age, they have already developed basic problem-solving and motor skills to handle tasks and make simple decisions on their own. Of course, becoming more independent is a long and complex process that your preschooler shouldn’t be rushed with. Instead, you can help them out with these five small steps.

Let Them Pick Their Clothes

This might be a tricky task if you let your preschoolers pick out clothes from scratch as they might decide to wear a T-shirt during winter. Instead, create a few combinations and let them pick out one that they like the most.

Let Them Dress Themselves

You should practice this when you are not in a hurry. Show your preschooler how to put on each item of clothing. Then let them try. It might take some practice, but they will eventually figure it out.

Have Them Put Away Toys

There is no need to be super strict about this, but your preschoolers should learn that they need to clean up after themselves. The best way to achieve this is to have them put away their toys after playing.

Encourage Them to Get Snacks and Drinks By Themselves

This will do wonders for your preschooler’s independence. They will also feel a sense of accomplishment when they realize they can get snacks for themselves when they are hungry and something to drink when they are thirsty.

Give Them Simple Chores

Having preschoolers do simple chores like taking out the garbage or setting up plates will not only help them become more independent but also boost their confidence.

The post 5 Small Steps That Will Help Your Preschooler Become More Independent appeared first on parentztalk.com.

The reel shows a one-year-old named Sophie as she sits in an indoor playhouse and “reads” her books. The little girl is visibly excited as she goes through pages and is attempting to make sense of the words and pictures and speak them out loud.

In the caption of the reel, Sophie’s mom shared that she started reading to her daughter since she was a “tiny baby.” Although the reading sessions were infrequent at first, she later made them a regular habit. She was reading to Sophie before naps and started bringing them everywhere.

It didn’t take long before Sophie became intrigued with the books and wanted to do some reading as well. Nowadays, it is her favorite activity, one that even tops playing with toys.

“She spends 20-40 minutes reading on her own before a nap, often choosing books over toys. Watching that melts my heart every time,” Sophie’s mom explained.

You can check out the video featuring Sophie’s reading session below.

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Sophia’s Playroom (@sophia.s.playroom)

The post 1-Year-Old Starts Choosing Books Over Toys After Mom Reads to Her Every Day appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Is Your Teen Interested in Driving?

While having a driver’s license comes with a number of benefits, some teens are just not interested in doing that right away. Parents can encourage their teens to start driving but they definitely shouldn’t force anything. Even if your teen isn’t interested in driving right away, in most cases they will eventually change their mind when they realize its advantages.

Are You Comfortable With Them Being Behind the Wheel?

As a parent, you need to be comfortable with having your teen behind the wheel. You can determine that by considering their decision-making and how responsible they are in everyday life. Also, showing good judgment and reacting well under pressure are great signs that they will be good drivers.

Do You Have Rules Associated with Driving? 

Your teen should know what’s expected from them when they acquire their driver’s license. This includes being familiar with any rules that you may have with driving including restrictions and curfews.

Can You Handle it Financially?

Finally, you should ask yourself whether you can handle it financially as your teen will likely expect to get their own car. Even if you decide on sharing the family car, the expenses of insurance, gas, and repairs will likely go up.

The post Important Questions to Ask Yourself Before Letting Your Teen Get a Driver’s License appeared first on parentztalk.com.

For a long time, one of the recommended methods for dealing with children’s tantrums was to simply ignore them. The idea is that the child will realize that their outbursts will not get them the attention they are seeking and that they will eventually calm down. However, there are several reasons why you shouldn’t react like this.

It Might Have an Opposite Effect

In some cases, ignoring a child’s tantrums will make them stop, at least for a short time. But there is also a possibility that this method will have the opposite effect. The tantrums could become more frequent and pronounced, with the child hoping you’ll pay attention if they are louder and more disruptive.

It Will Negatively Impact Their Mental Health

Being ignored will negatively impact the child’s mental health. They might start feeling isolated which prompts them to suppress their emotions. The tantrums will stop for the time being but it will lead to different issues down the line.

It Doesn’t Address the Underlying Problem

Children rarely turn to tantrums for no reason at all. By ignoring them, you are failing to address the underlying problem that led to the tantrum in the first place. The tantrums will likely be replaced by a different behavior that could become even more problematic. By engaging with your child in moments like these, you will be able to get to the root of the problem and handle the issue more efficiently.

The post 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Ignore Your Child’s Tantrums appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Shirin Galili, mom of three and former teacher, recently shared a video on Instagram in which she demonstrated the importance of tone and body language when talking to kids.

Galili showcased three situations that most parents encounter and need to communicate with their kids. This includes telling her child to “get in the car,” to “use calm and kind words” when upset, and to warn them that they said they’ll “clean up their mess.”

In each of the situations, Galili first communicates with her child by raising her voice and using strict body language before repeating the same words in a playful and gentler manner.

Watching the video, it becomes clear which type of tone and body language is more suitable and likely to get a response from kids.

“Kids only absorb about 7% of our words. The other 93% of what kids are absorbing is our tone of voice (38%) and our body language (55%). It’s not just about using the “right scripts”. For true effectiveness, it needs to be the right combination,” Galili shared in the caption of the video that already got close to two million views.

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Shirin Galili | NŪVŪ PARENTING (@shirin.galili)

The post Mom of 3 Demonstrates Importance of Tone and Body Language When Talking to Kids appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Break Down the Chores

The sense of accomplishment will go a long way in providing your kids the needed motivation to do their chores. One of the best ways to make them feel accomplished is to break down the chores. For example, don’t make them clean their room all at once. Instead, give one specific task after another while recognizing their success after each one.

Make Them Fun

Chores can be fun if you make some effort to set them up that way. Make chores a competition or set them up as a challenge with a clock countdown. You can also set some music backgrounds and turn them into a scavenger hunt.

Let Them Have Their Pick

Give your kids a choice between different chores. This way, they will have a choice and pick one that they feel can do the best or quickest. Mix up the options each time to ensure they don’t just keep doing the same thing all over again.

Use a Reward System

Finally, using a reward system can be the best motivation for your kids to complete their chores. You can make a chart or keep a list on the fridge so they know how close they are to achieving their goal. If you want this method to be successful, make sure the reward is something they will be genuinely excited about, like a new video game. 

The post 4 Simple Ways to Motivate Your Kids to Do Their Chores appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Practice Sharing Around Them

Children learn best from practical examples. This means you should practice sharing around them while explaining what you’re doing. This can be anything from splitting a piece of chocolate between two of you or sharing your things with other members of the family.

Use a Turn-Taking Strategy

The turn-taking strategy is highly efficient when it comes to teaching children how to share. This way, they will realize that just because they gave up something, it doesn’t mean they have lost it forever. You can use the turn-taking strategy with toys, games, and other activities.

Encourage Sharing

You should never force your kids to share their things. However, encouraging them to do so in a gentle way is quite beneficial. You can create situations that offer opportunities for sharing and explain to them why this kind of behavior is good. Also, you can offer rewards that will entice them to share more.

Acknowledge Sharing

When you notice that your child is practicing sharing, it is important to acknowledge it and praise them for doing that. This will provide positive reinforcement and encourage them to repeat the same acts.

The post Best Ways to Teach Your Children How to Share appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Instagram user Deb, who often shares tips and tricks for moms on social media, definitely belongs to the former camp. She recently shared a cool hack that helps her toddler fold their laundry while turning the activity into a fun game.

In a viral video that received 85 million views, Deb demonstrated a DIY device for folding laundry. She taped four pieces of cardboard together and marked them with distinctly-colored numbers to make a folding device.

The clip sees her toddler placing a shirt on the device, activating the flaps according to their numbers and ending up with a neatly folded shirt.

“MOM HACK: to get your toddler to fold their laundry … Get your little one involved to make it fun,” Deb wrote in the caption of the video.

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by George & Deb & Nelio & Mila (@the_goddard_fam)

Deb’s “mom hack” drew different reactions from social media users. While some were critical of including a kid in household chores so early, many others were full of praise.

“This is the age when kids want to help and be involved. if you wait and teach them that they aren’t involved in household life it will be much harder to teach them the responsibility when they’re older,” one Instagram user wrote.

“Gross motor, counting, and life skills all in one go. You go momma!” another added.

The post Mom Shares a Cool Hack That Helps Toddlers Fold Their Laundry appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Organize One-on-One Time

Organize some quality one-on-one with each child. It can be some little projects you do together, helping them with homework, or playing their favorite game. Even if you can do 15 minutes per child each day, it will mean a lot to them.

Ask Questions

You need to show your care towards each child. One of the ways to achieve this is by asking questions. Show interest in how each child spent their day, what are they currently working on, and what’s happening in their life outside the home.

Show Affection

Don’t hesitate to show affection to each child. It can be hugs, kisses, or another way that will make them feel loved.

Avoid Playing Favorites

Finally, you must avoid playing favorites at all costs. Set the same rules for each child and show everyone the same amount of understanding. This is the only way to avoid sibling rivalry while making each child feel special in their own way.

The post 4 Secrets to Making Each Child in the Family Feel Special appeared first on parentztalk.com.

As a pediatrician, TikTok user @niky.mamamd saw plenty of cases in which a seemingly small oversight led to tragic consequences. That is why she decided to share some tragedy-preventing safety tips she practices in her own home with her followers.

In a viral video recently posted on social media, @niky.mamamd showed things she does “automatically” in order to create a safe environment for her kids. This includes keeping pot/pan handles to the side and keeping hot beverages and soups on the back side of the counter to prevent children from reaching for them and knocking them over.

Also, she advises always cutting the grapes and similarly shaped food before leaving them on the table as they represent a choking hazard.

Other TikTok users praised @niky.mamamd for sharing her tips while also leaving some of their own in the comments section.

“I like putting boiling water in the back burner and as kitchen safety i always announce myself like behind you, bringing hot water to the sink, dishwasher open etc,” one user wrote.

“And never leave a bath with a bit of water,” another added.

After the success of her first video, @niky.mamamd later uploaded a follow-up in which she shared more safety tips that she practices including never leaving anything with strings or chords around, putting away objects with button batteries, and avoiding hanging any types of clothes on the chair.

The post Pediatrician Shares Tragedy-Preventing Safety Tips She Practices in Her Own Home appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Most experts agree that kids should be encouraged to be more independent in the preschool period, between the ages of four and six. By this age, they have already developed basic problem-solving and motor skills to handle tasks and make simple decisions on their own. Of course, becoming more independent is a long and complex process that your preschooler shouldn’t be rushed with. Instead, you can help them out with these five small steps.

Let Them Pick Their Clothes

This might be a tricky task if you let your preschoolers pick out clothes from scratch as they might decide to wear a T-shirt during winter. Instead, create a few combinations and let them pick out one that they like the most.

Let Them Dress Themselves

You should practice this when you are not in a hurry. Show your preschooler how to put on each item of clothing. Then let them try. It might take some practice, but they will eventually figure it out.

Have Them Put Away Toys

There is no need to be super strict about this, but your preschoolers should learn that they need to clean up after themselves. The best way to achieve this is to have them put away their toys after playing.

Encourage Them to Get Snacks and Drinks By Themselves

This will do wonders for your preschooler’s independence. They will also feel a sense of accomplishment when they realize they can get snacks for themselves when they are hungry and something to drink when they are thirsty.

Give Them Simple Chores

Having preschoolers do simple chores like taking out the garbage or setting up plates will not only help them become more independent but also boost their confidence.

The post 5 Small Steps That Will Help Your Preschooler Become More Independent appeared first on parentztalk.com.

The reel shows a one-year-old named Sophie as she sits in an indoor playhouse and “reads” her books. The little girl is visibly excited as she goes through pages and is attempting to make sense of the words and pictures and speak them out loud.

In the caption of the reel, Sophie’s mom shared that she started reading to her daughter since she was a “tiny baby.” Although the reading sessions were infrequent at first, she later made them a regular habit. She was reading to Sophie before naps and started bringing them everywhere.

It didn’t take long before Sophie became intrigued with the books and wanted to do some reading as well. Nowadays, it is her favorite activity, one that even tops playing with toys.

“She spends 20-40 minutes reading on her own before a nap, often choosing books over toys. Watching that melts my heart every time,” Sophie’s mom explained.

You can check out the video featuring Sophie’s reading session below.

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Sophia’s Playroom (@sophia.s.playroom)

The post 1-Year-Old Starts Choosing Books Over Toys After Mom Reads to Her Every Day appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Is Your Teen Interested in Driving?

While having a driver’s license comes with a number of benefits, some teens are just not interested in doing that right away. Parents can encourage their teens to start driving but they definitely shouldn’t force anything. Even if your teen isn’t interested in driving right away, in most cases they will eventually change their mind when they realize its advantages.

Are You Comfortable With Them Being Behind the Wheel?

As a parent, you need to be comfortable with having your teen behind the wheel. You can determine that by considering their decision-making and how responsible they are in everyday life. Also, showing good judgment and reacting well under pressure are great signs that they will be good drivers.

Do You Have Rules Associated with Driving? 

Your teen should know what’s expected from them when they acquire their driver’s license. This includes being familiar with any rules that you may have with driving including restrictions and curfews.

Can You Handle it Financially?

Finally, you should ask yourself whether you can handle it financially as your teen will likely expect to get their own car. Even if you decide on sharing the family car, the expenses of insurance, gas, and repairs will likely go up.

The post Important Questions to Ask Yourself Before Letting Your Teen Get a Driver’s License appeared first on parentztalk.com.

For a long time, one of the recommended methods for dealing with children’s tantrums was to simply ignore them. The idea is that the child will realize that their outbursts will not get them the attention they are seeking and that they will eventually calm down. However, there are several reasons why you shouldn’t react like this.

It Might Have an Opposite Effect

In some cases, ignoring a child’s tantrums will make them stop, at least for a short time. But there is also a possibility that this method will have the opposite effect. The tantrums could become more frequent and pronounced, with the child hoping you’ll pay attention if they are louder and more disruptive.

It Will Negatively Impact Their Mental Health

Being ignored will negatively impact the child’s mental health. They might start feeling isolated which prompts them to suppress their emotions. The tantrums will stop for the time being but it will lead to different issues down the line.

It Doesn’t Address the Underlying Problem

Children rarely turn to tantrums for no reason at all. By ignoring them, you are failing to address the underlying problem that led to the tantrum in the first place. The tantrums will likely be replaced by a different behavior that could become even more problematic. By engaging with your child in moments like these, you will be able to get to the root of the problem and handle the issue more efficiently.

The post 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Ignore Your Child’s Tantrums appeared first on parentztalk.com.

Shirin Galili, mom of three and former teacher, recently shared a video on Instagram in which she demonstrated the importance of tone and body language when talking to kids.

Galili showcased three situations that most parents encounter and need to communicate with their kids. This includes telling her child to “get in the car,” to “use calm and kind words” when upset, and to warn them that they said they’ll “clean up their mess.”

In each of the situations, Galili first communicates with her child by raising her voice and using strict body language before repeating the same words in a playful and gentler manner.

Watching the video, it becomes clear which type of tone and body language is more suitable and likely to get a response from kids.

“Kids only absorb about 7% of our words. The other 93% of what kids are absorbing is our tone of voice (38%) and our body language (55%). It’s not just about using the “right scripts”. For true effectiveness, it needs to be the right combination,” Galili shared in the caption of the video that already got close to two million views.

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Shirin Galili | NŪVŪ PARENTING (@shirin.galili)

The post Mom of 3 Demonstrates Importance of Tone and Body Language When Talking to Kids appeared first on parentztalk.com.