From raging hormones to high school and entering the world of dating, your teenage kids are dealing with a lot. As a result, you might find it difficult to connect with your children as they go through so many challenges. Here are some techniques to help you develop a better connection with your teens and help them succeed.
Make One-On-One Time
Sometimes, your teens’ frustrations could come from a place of missing you. Make sure to set a time in your schedule to meet with your children and really get a chance to discuss life.
Listen
While you may have to be in command when teaching your children, listening to them is just as important. By listening to your kids’ problems and concerns, you could better understand their feelings and maybe better understand how to help them. What’s more, you might just discover that you have more in common than you think, thereby strengthening your connection.
Show Your Support
In addition to providing financial support to your kids, it’s important to provide moral support to show them that you’re emotionally invested in them and their dreams. Pay attention when your kids appear upset or stressed and make sure to show them that you are there for them if they want your support.