Parents are usually not too happy when their teenager starts going to parties. But there is no point in objecting to it because you risk spoiling your relationship with your teen that way or causing them to go out behind your back. Instead of trying to stop them from going, here is how you should handle it.
Ask for Basic Information
You will feel peace of mind if you know some basic information about the party. Ask your teen questions like: Where is the party happening? How long will it take? How many people do they know there? Will there be adult supervision? Knowing the answers to these questions will make you more confident in letting the teen go.
Set Some Ground Rules
Of course, you should set some ground rules. Make sure to let them know what kind of behavior you will not tolerate and settle on a curfew. Also, let them know about any possible punishment beforehand so they know what’s at risk.
Give Them a “No Questions Asked” Pass
Make sure your kid is open to asking for your help if needed. Let them know that they can call you at any time for help or to pick them up and that you’ll ask no questions.
Calm Their Nerves
If your teen is just starting to go to parties, they might feel nervous, and you, as a parent, should help calm their nerves. Give them some basic advice on how to behave, how to meet new people, and how to avoid uncomfortable situations. Regardless of how worried you might be, you still want them to have fun.