Big families are a blessing but come with all sorts of challenges for parents. Besides trying to find time for work, house chores, and their personal well-being, they also need to pay attention to the family dynamics. It can be hard to dedicate enough time to each child as they might have different needs due to their age or development. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t make each child in the family feel special. Here are some secrets to doing that.
Organize One-on-One Time
Organize some quality one-on-one with each child. It can be some little projects you do together, helping them with homework, or playing their favorite game. Even if you can do 15 minutes per child each day, it will mean a lot to them.
Ask Questions
You need to show your care towards each child. One of the ways to achieve this is by asking questions. Show interest in how each child spent their day, what are they currently working on, and what’s happening in their life outside the home.
Show Affection
Don’t hesitate to show affection to each child. It can be hugs, kisses, or another way that will make them feel loved.
Avoid Playing Favorites
Finally, you must avoid playing favorites at all costs. Set the same rules for each child and show everyone the same amount of understanding. This is the only way to avoid sibling rivalry while making each child feel special in their own way.