10 Questions to Ask Your Kids Instead of “How Was Your Day”

Asking your children about their day is a common way for parents to engage and connect with their kids. But the typical “How was your day?” often elicits a monosyllabic response like “Fine” or “Okay,” which doesn’t provide much insight or foster further conversation. To truly engage with your children and understand their world, consider asking more specific and open-ended questions. Here are a few ideas. 

  1. What was the best thing that happened to you today?
  2. Did you learn something new or interesting today?
  3. What made you laugh today?
  4. Was there anything that made you feel proud of yourself today?
  5. Did you face any challenges today?
  6. How did you help someone today?
  7. What was the most interesting thing your teacher said today?
  8. Who did you play or hang out with today, and what did you do together?
  9. If you could change one thing about today, what would it be?
  10. What are you looking forward to tomorrow?

In the end, it’s all about making those daily chats more meaningful. With these thoughtful questions, you’re doing more than just talking—you’re connecting and creating a safe space for your children to express themselves. So, the next time you’re curious about their day, try spicing things up and see how it goes.