parenting teens Archives - parentztalk.com parentztalk.com Sun, 14 Apr 2024 10:43:41 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 How to Help Your Teen Get Over a Breakup https://parentztalk.com/how-to-help-your-teen-get-over-a-breakup/ Thu, 18 Apr 2024 16:27:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=6613 Life as a teenager is challenging, especially because for many, it’s the time that they are introduced to dating. While joyful, dating can sometimes be tough, especially when it comes to breakups. Here is how you can help your teen get over a breakup and ultimately, mend a broken heart. Be Available By simply showing […]

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]]> Life as a teenager is challenging, especially because for many, it’s the time that they are introduced to dating. While joyful, dating can sometimes be tough, especially when it comes to breakups. Here is how you can help your teen get over a breakup and ultimately, mend a broken heart.

Be Available

By simply showing your teen that you are available to talk to them you can show them support without smothering them. What’s more, by being the first person to show them support, your teens will feel more openly ready to trust your guidance, bringing you close together.

Validate Their Feelings

One reason why people are often hesitant to open up is because they fear judgment. By showing your kids that you are ready to listen and accept their feelings, they’ll be more ready to talk and thus, release their feelings and begin to feel better.

Check In

Even after you and your teen have discussed their feelings and reached a breakthrough, your job is not over yet. Getting over a breakup entirely can take time, meaning that you’ll need to check in with your teen from time to time to ensure they’re coping with the situation. This also shows your teen that your care is constant and unconditional.

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]]> Be Aware of These 3 Things That May Affect Your Teens https://parentztalk.com/be-aware-of-these-3-things-that-may-affect-your-teens/ Wed, 03 Apr 2024 16:23:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=6389 In the age of rapidly advancing technology, the amount of information being sent your teens’ way is larger than was ever the case in history. As a result, new issues are emerging that are affecting the lives of our youth, whether or not we as parents are aware. Here are some social issues that your […]

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]]> In the age of rapidly advancing technology, the amount of information being sent your teens’ way is larger than was ever the case in history. As a result, new issues are emerging that are affecting the lives of our youth, whether or not we as parents are aware. Here are some social issues that your teens may be facing that you should be aware of.

Social Media

From Instagram to Snapchat, Facebook, and TikTok, teens are connecting in more ways than ever before. While it has its perks, social media also comes with its dangers such as cyberbullying. What’s more, it’s changing the way that people date, as online dating heads to the forefront of the dating scene. Make sure to educate your kids on the dangers of social media and make sure to teach yourself more about the apps that your teens are using so that you remain up to date.

On-Screen Violence

With the sprawling selection of TV shows and movies available for consumption, there is a lot of content that can prove to be violent and disturbing. In fact, much of what we consume can dictate our behavior, with teens being highly impressionable due to their developing minds. Pay close attention to age restrictions and make sure they understand what sort of behavior of characters on screen is inappropriate or downright unacceptable.

Dating

A survey from the Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System (YRBSS) found that 21% of high schoolers are sexually active. While you cannot control your teens’ behavior, make sure to educate them on the dangers and risks that could await them. Also, make sure to remain receptive to any questions they may have, assuring them that there is nothing to be ashamed of asking.

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]]> How to Develop a Better Connection With Your Teenage Kids https://parentztalk.com/how-to-develop-a-better-connection-with-your-teenage-kids/ Sun, 24 Mar 2024 14:33:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=6200 From raging hormones to high school and entering the world of dating, your teenage kids are dealing with a lot. As a result, you might find it difficult to connect with your children as they go through so many challenges. Here are some techniques to help you develop a better connection with your teens and […]

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]]> From raging hormones to high school and entering the world of dating, your teenage kids are dealing with a lot. As a result, you might find it difficult to connect with your children as they go through so many challenges. Here are some techniques to help you develop a better connection with your teens and help them succeed.

Make One-On-One Time

Sometimes, your teens’ frustrations could come from a place of missing you. Make sure to set a time in your schedule to meet with your children and really get a chance to discuss life.

Listen

While you may have to be in command when teaching your children, listening to them is just as important. By listening to your kids’ problems and concerns, you could better understand their feelings and maybe better understand how to help them. What’s more, you might just discover that you have more in common than you think, thereby strengthening your connection.

Show Your Support

In addition to providing financial support to your kids, it’s important to provide moral support to show them that you’re emotionally invested in them and their dreams. Pay attention when your kids appear upset or stressed and make sure to show them that you are there for them if they want your support.

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]]> How to Talk to Your Teens About Relationships https://parentztalk.com/how-to-talk-to-your-teens-about-relationships/ Fri, 30 Jun 2023 16:47:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=1757 Talking to teenagers about relationships can be a sensitive and important topic. It’s crucial to establish open and honest communication to help them navigate this aspect of their lives. If you’re unsure how to gauge this topic with them in an organic way, there are helpful tools you can keep in mind. Here are some […]

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]]> Talking to teenagers about relationships can be a sensitive and important topic. It’s crucial to establish open and honest communication to help them navigate this aspect of their lives. If you’re unsure how to gauge this topic with them in an organic way, there are helpful tools you can keep in mind. Here are some valuable tips on how to approach these conversations and support your teenagers in their relationships.

Create a Safe Environment

Start by creating a safe and non-judgmental environment where your teenagers feel comfortable discussing their thoughts and concerns about relationships. Assure them that you are there to listen, offer guidance, and provide support without passing judgment.

Provide Balanced Guidance

Offer balanced guidance by discussing both the positive and negative aspects of relationships. Emphasize the importance of healthy communication, respect, trust, and consent. Discuss red flags or warning signs of unhealthy relationships, such as control, manipulation, or abuse. Encourage them to set boundaries and prioritize their well-being.

Share Personal Experiences

Share relevant personal experiences from your own relationships, highlighting lessons learned and valuable insights. This can help them understand that relationships involve growth, challenges, and learning experiences. However, avoid oversharing or making the conversation solely about yourself.

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]]> Is Your Kid Too Consumed By Fashion Trends? https://parentztalk.com/is-your-kid-too-consumed-by-fashion-trends/ Thu, 09 Mar 2023 12:49:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=867 We’re not going to sit here on our high horses and say that all fashion trends are bad and that you should teach your child to go out of their way to do the opposite of what society says. Trends are trends for a reason, and there is virtue in looking presentable, as well as […]

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]]> We’re not going to sit here on our high horses and say that all fashion trends are bad and that you should teach your child to go out of their way to do the opposite of what society says. Trends are trends for a reason, and there is virtue in looking presentable, as well as knowing when it’s appropriate to fit in to a crowd. However, there ought to be limits to the extent we’re willing to be sheep to certain trends, and it’s important our children understand this.

Teaching Them to Think for Themselves

Fashion is a mere byproduct of countless other cultural trends that take place in every generation. And yet, as a tool of expression, it can have a very strong impact on the way your child thinks of themselves.

Teaching children to looking presentable, as we mentioned, should be the bare minimum. Teaching them to look their best is also a skill that goes a long way.

However, if you really want to impart wisdom in your child’s fashion habits, teach them to think for themselves. Make no mistake, your beloved son or daughter will often feel consumed by the way their peers dress, especially in high school. They’re going to want to fit in. You shouldn’t discourage them from feeling a part of a collective. But you should also strengthen their individual character enough that if, for whatever reason, they have a bad hair day, or all their “trendy dresses” are in the laundry and have to wear their “boring clothes” to school one day, it’s not going to be the end of the world.

Allow them to feel connected to something greater. Heck, we all had fashion styles growing up, and it’s not the worst thing in the world. But you don’t want them to lose themselves in the process, and it’ll be up to you to remind them who they are when they’ve lost their way.

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]]> ersion="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?> parenting teens Archives - parentztalk.com parentztalk.com Sun, 14 Apr 2024 10:43:41 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 How to Help Your Teen Get Over a Breakup https://parentztalk.com/how-to-help-your-teen-get-over-a-breakup/ Thu, 18 Apr 2024 16:27:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=6613 Life as a teenager is challenging, especially because for many, it’s the time that they are introduced to dating. While joyful, dating can sometimes be tough, especially when it comes to breakups. Here is how you can help your teen get over a breakup and ultimately, mend a broken heart. Be Available By simply showing […]

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]]> Life as a teenager is challenging, especially because for many, it’s the time that they are introduced to dating. While joyful, dating can sometimes be tough, especially when it comes to breakups. Here is how you can help your teen get over a breakup and ultimately, mend a broken heart.

Be Available

By simply showing your teen that you are available to talk to them you can show them support without smothering them. What’s more, by being the first person to show them support, your teens will feel more openly ready to trust your guidance, bringing you close together.

Validate Their Feelings

One reason why people are often hesitant to open up is because they fear judgment. By showing your kids that you are ready to listen and accept their feelings, they’ll be more ready to talk and thus, release their feelings and begin to feel better.

Check In

Even after you and your teen have discussed their feelings and reached a breakthrough, your job is not over yet. Getting over a breakup entirely can take time, meaning that you’ll need to check in with your teen from time to time to ensure they’re coping with the situation. This also shows your teen that your care is constant and unconditional.

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]]> Be Aware of These 3 Things That May Affect Your Teens https://parentztalk.com/be-aware-of-these-3-things-that-may-affect-your-teens/ Wed, 03 Apr 2024 16:23:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=6389 In the age of rapidly advancing technology, the amount of information being sent your teens’ way is larger than was ever the case in history. As a result, new issues are emerging that are affecting the lives of our youth, whether or not we as parents are aware. Here are some social issues that your […]

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]]> In the age of rapidly advancing technology, the amount of information being sent your teens’ way is larger than was ever the case in history. As a result, new issues are emerging that are affecting the lives of our youth, whether or not we as parents are aware. Here are some social issues that your teens may be facing that you should be aware of.

Social Media

From Instagram to Snapchat, Facebook, and TikTok, teens are connecting in more ways than ever before. While it has its perks, social media also comes with its dangers such as cyberbullying. What’s more, it’s changing the way that people date, as online dating heads to the forefront of the dating scene. Make sure to educate your kids on the dangers of social media and make sure to teach yourself more about the apps that your teens are using so that you remain up to date.

On-Screen Violence

With the sprawling selection of TV shows and movies available for consumption, there is a lot of content that can prove to be violent and disturbing. In fact, much of what we consume can dictate our behavior, with teens being highly impressionable due to their developing minds. Pay close attention to age restrictions and make sure they understand what sort of behavior of characters on screen is inappropriate or downright unacceptable.

Dating

A survey from the Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System (YRBSS) found that 21% of high schoolers are sexually active. While you cannot control your teens’ behavior, make sure to educate them on the dangers and risks that could await them. Also, make sure to remain receptive to any questions they may have, assuring them that there is nothing to be ashamed of asking.

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]]> How to Develop a Better Connection With Your Teenage Kids https://parentztalk.com/how-to-develop-a-better-connection-with-your-teenage-kids/ Sun, 24 Mar 2024 14:33:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=6200 From raging hormones to high school and entering the world of dating, your teenage kids are dealing with a lot. As a result, you might find it difficult to connect with your children as they go through so many challenges. Here are some techniques to help you develop a better connection with your teens and […]

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]]> From raging hormones to high school and entering the world of dating, your teenage kids are dealing with a lot. As a result, you might find it difficult to connect with your children as they go through so many challenges. Here are some techniques to help you develop a better connection with your teens and help them succeed.

Make One-On-One Time

Sometimes, your teens’ frustrations could come from a place of missing you. Make sure to set a time in your schedule to meet with your children and really get a chance to discuss life.

Listen

While you may have to be in command when teaching your children, listening to them is just as important. By listening to your kids’ problems and concerns, you could better understand their feelings and maybe better understand how to help them. What’s more, you might just discover that you have more in common than you think, thereby strengthening your connection.

Show Your Support

In addition to providing financial support to your kids, it’s important to provide moral support to show them that you’re emotionally invested in them and their dreams. Pay attention when your kids appear upset or stressed and make sure to show them that you are there for them if they want your support.

The post How to Develop a Better Connection With Your Teenage Kids appeared first on parentztalk.com.

]]> How to Talk to Your Teens About Relationships https://parentztalk.com/how-to-talk-to-your-teens-about-relationships/ Fri, 30 Jun 2023 16:47:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=1757 Talking to teenagers about relationships can be a sensitive and important topic. It’s crucial to establish open and honest communication to help them navigate this aspect of their lives. If you’re unsure how to gauge this topic with them in an organic way, there are helpful tools you can keep in mind. Here are some […]

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]]> Talking to teenagers about relationships can be a sensitive and important topic. It’s crucial to establish open and honest communication to help them navigate this aspect of their lives. If you’re unsure how to gauge this topic with them in an organic way, there are helpful tools you can keep in mind. Here are some valuable tips on how to approach these conversations and support your teenagers in their relationships.

Create a Safe Environment

Start by creating a safe and non-judgmental environment where your teenagers feel comfortable discussing their thoughts and concerns about relationships. Assure them that you are there to listen, offer guidance, and provide support without passing judgment.

Provide Balanced Guidance

Offer balanced guidance by discussing both the positive and negative aspects of relationships. Emphasize the importance of healthy communication, respect, trust, and consent. Discuss red flags or warning signs of unhealthy relationships, such as control, manipulation, or abuse. Encourage them to set boundaries and prioritize their well-being.

Share Personal Experiences

Share relevant personal experiences from your own relationships, highlighting lessons learned and valuable insights. This can help them understand that relationships involve growth, challenges, and learning experiences. However, avoid oversharing or making the conversation solely about yourself.

The post How to Talk to Your Teens About Relationships appeared first on parentztalk.com.

]]> Is Your Kid Too Consumed By Fashion Trends? https://parentztalk.com/is-your-kid-too-consumed-by-fashion-trends/ Thu, 09 Mar 2023 12:49:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=867 We’re not going to sit here on our high horses and say that all fashion trends are bad and that you should teach your child to go out of their way to do the opposite of what society says. Trends are trends for a reason, and there is virtue in looking presentable, as well as […]

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]]> We’re not going to sit here on our high horses and say that all fashion trends are bad and that you should teach your child to go out of their way to do the opposite of what society says. Trends are trends for a reason, and there is virtue in looking presentable, as well as knowing when it’s appropriate to fit in to a crowd. However, there ought to be limits to the extent we’re willing to be sheep to certain trends, and it’s important our children understand this.

Teaching Them to Think for Themselves

Fashion is a mere byproduct of countless other cultural trends that take place in every generation. And yet, as a tool of expression, it can have a very strong impact on the way your child thinks of themselves.

Teaching children to looking presentable, as we mentioned, should be the bare minimum. Teaching them to look their best is also a skill that goes a long way.

However, if you really want to impart wisdom in your child’s fashion habits, teach them to think for themselves. Make no mistake, your beloved son or daughter will often feel consumed by the way their peers dress, especially in high school. They’re going to want to fit in. You shouldn’t discourage them from feeling a part of a collective. But you should also strengthen their individual character enough that if, for whatever reason, they have a bad hair day, or all their “trendy dresses” are in the laundry and have to wear their “boring clothes” to school one day, it’s not going to be the end of the world.

Allow them to feel connected to something greater. Heck, we all had fashion styles growing up, and it’s not the worst thing in the world. But you don’t want them to lose themselves in the process, and it’ll be up to you to remind them who they are when they’ve lost their way.

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