family tips Archives - parentztalk.com parentztalk.com Thu, 25 Apr 2024 09:15:27 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 How to Help Your Kid When They’re Scared From a Nightmare https://parentztalk.com/how-to-help-your-kid-when-theyre-scared-from-a-nightmare/ Mon, 29 Apr 2024 12:49:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=5214 All of us remember the horror of childhood bad dreams, and the lingering fear they could create, even in the light of day. If your kid is waking up with nightmares, there are things you can put in place to help ease them back to sleep once they’ve woken, and adaptations you can make to […]

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All of us remember the horror of childhood bad dreams, and the lingering fear they could create, even in the light of day. If your kid is waking up with nightmares, there are things you can put in place to help ease them back to sleep once they’ve woken, and adaptations you can make to reduce the amount of nightmares they’re having overall.

Set a Predictable Bedtime Routine

Lots of kids don’t like going to bed for lots of different reasons, but if you set up a predictable bedtime routine that your kid can follow, it will help them feel less anxious as they drop off to sleep. It will be especially effective if you can spend ten minutes or so in their room with them before they sleep, reading a book, or talking over their day. This winding down activity will help them to feel sleepier and more relaxed, reducing the risk of nightmares occurring.

Don’t Scold Them Once They’ve Woken

If your kid does wake up from nightmares, it can be incredibly frustrating as you will want to get back to sleep as soon as possible. Different parents have different rules about whether they let their kids into their bed in the night, but whatever your stance on this take the time to listen to and soothe your child. Nothing is worse than waking from a nightmare and then feeling like your parents aren’t there to protect and comfort you. Make sure your child is settled before attempting to get them to go back to sleep, otherwise, it’s likely they’ll have another bad dream.

Talk to Them in the Morning

Make sure you check in with your kid in the morning, as many children remain terrified by their bad dreams, even during the day. Talk about your own experiences of bad dreams, and how you learned that, whilst scary, nightmares can’t actually hurt you. Ask your kid if anything is playing on their mind, as sometimes issues at school or with friends can reveal themselves in the form of bad dreams.

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Why It’s Important To Show a United Front For Your Kids https://parentztalk.com/why-its-important-to-show-a-united-front-for-your-kids/ Wed, 29 Mar 2023 08:27:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=983 Certain parenting rules are implied, while others are sneaky and less known. For instance, something that so many parents neglect to pay attention to is how they treat each other in front of their kids. Yes, you heard us correctly. Not how they treat their kids—how they treat each other in front of their kids. […]

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Certain parenting rules are implied, while others are sneaky and less known. For instance, something that so many parents neglect to pay attention to is how they treat each other in front of their kids. Yes, you heard us correctly. Not how they treat their kids—how they treat each other in front of their kids. On that note, here’s why it’s so important to show your children a united front.

It Brings Stability Into Their Lives

Arguments happen in any relationship. It’s only natural. But no matter what argument you’re having with your spouse, you should do everything in your power to make sure that argument doesn’t happen in front of your child. You want to show your child a united front, and the reason is because it adds stability to their lives. When they see their parents united strongly as one, it influences them in a positive way, and they’ll feel inspired to yearn for this type of strength as they get older.

You’re Their Foundation

You need to realize that you and your spouse provide foundational support for your child. Not just financially, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. They feel less equipped to handle life’s trials and tribulations when their parents are fighting in front of them—because to them, mommy and daddy fighting symbolizes a chink in the armor. A chink in the very foundation they put faith in from the moment they were born. So even if it’s not easy, do the best you can to provide your children with a strong, united foundation.

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ersion="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?> family tips Archives - parentztalk.com parentztalk.com Thu, 25 Apr 2024 09:15:27 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 How to Help Your Kid When They’re Scared From a Nightmare https://parentztalk.com/how-to-help-your-kid-when-theyre-scared-from-a-nightmare/ Mon, 29 Apr 2024 12:49:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=5214 All of us remember the horror of childhood bad dreams, and the lingering fear they could create, even in the light of day. If your kid is waking up with nightmares, there are things you can put in place to help ease them back to sleep once they’ve woken, and adaptations you can make to […]

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All of us remember the horror of childhood bad dreams, and the lingering fear they could create, even in the light of day. If your kid is waking up with nightmares, there are things you can put in place to help ease them back to sleep once they’ve woken, and adaptations you can make to reduce the amount of nightmares they’re having overall.

Set a Predictable Bedtime Routine

Lots of kids don’t like going to bed for lots of different reasons, but if you set up a predictable bedtime routine that your kid can follow, it will help them feel less anxious as they drop off to sleep. It will be especially effective if you can spend ten minutes or so in their room with them before they sleep, reading a book, or talking over their day. This winding down activity will help them to feel sleepier and more relaxed, reducing the risk of nightmares occurring.

Don’t Scold Them Once They’ve Woken

If your kid does wake up from nightmares, it can be incredibly frustrating as you will want to get back to sleep as soon as possible. Different parents have different rules about whether they let their kids into their bed in the night, but whatever your stance on this take the time to listen to and soothe your child. Nothing is worse than waking from a nightmare and then feeling like your parents aren’t there to protect and comfort you. Make sure your child is settled before attempting to get them to go back to sleep, otherwise, it’s likely they’ll have another bad dream.

Talk to Them in the Morning

Make sure you check in with your kid in the morning, as many children remain terrified by their bad dreams, even during the day. Talk about your own experiences of bad dreams, and how you learned that, whilst scary, nightmares can’t actually hurt you. Ask your kid if anything is playing on their mind, as sometimes issues at school or with friends can reveal themselves in the form of bad dreams.

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Why It’s Important To Show a United Front For Your Kids https://parentztalk.com/why-its-important-to-show-a-united-front-for-your-kids/ Wed, 29 Mar 2023 08:27:00 +0000 https://parentztalk.com/?p=983 Certain parenting rules are implied, while others are sneaky and less known. For instance, something that so many parents neglect to pay attention to is how they treat each other in front of their kids. Yes, you heard us correctly. Not how they treat their kids—how they treat each other in front of their kids. […]

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Certain parenting rules are implied, while others are sneaky and less known. For instance, something that so many parents neglect to pay attention to is how they treat each other in front of their kids. Yes, you heard us correctly. Not how they treat their kids—how they treat each other in front of their kids. On that note, here’s why it’s so important to show your children a united front.

It Brings Stability Into Their Lives

Arguments happen in any relationship. It’s only natural. But no matter what argument you’re having with your spouse, you should do everything in your power to make sure that argument doesn’t happen in front of your child. You want to show your child a united front, and the reason is because it adds stability to their lives. When they see their parents united strongly as one, it influences them in a positive way, and they’ll feel inspired to yearn for this type of strength as they get older.

You’re Their Foundation

You need to realize that you and your spouse provide foundational support for your child. Not just financially, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. They feel less equipped to handle life’s trials and tribulations when their parents are fighting in front of them—because to them, mommy and daddy fighting symbolizes a chink in the armor. A chink in the very foundation they put faith in from the moment they were born. So even if it’s not easy, do the best you can to provide your children with a strong, united foundation.

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